When a person is taken by partners of the stay at home, both sides have been working hard, and the sudden loss of financial independence may be a cause for frustration, tension and misunderstanding. This is very important to have a clear understanding of money in such a case, so that neither partner may feel lost, abuse, or limit the ability to make a choice.
Steps
1. There is a strong relationship. A person will not lose their financial independence to improve the relationship between instability. It usually make things worse. In making this one of the options (if it is an option), it is certain that the relationship and power. Take the time to discuss the possible negative consequences of reducing the income of the family, from the strict budgeting methods, the loss of friends, more money, to children irritated, they can not have what they want, and then there.
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2. Attention to your partner's contribution. The loss of employment opportunities, can have an enormous impact on a person's self-esteem. One of the most important thing you can do to your partner at this time is the value of the contribution, and their decision-making. This will mean that they are supporting efforts to find new employment opportunities, and appreciation of other useful activities, they participate in to help your family or the wider community.
3. To make lifestyle changes. Both sides must give up something now, you can easily provide the former. This means that the partners must also be money to re-evaluate their priorities too much, not all the expense of a one-time partners at home. Make this very clear to continue its efforts to partner, it may take some caution. But it is important for the partners of the self-esteem at home, he / she does not belong to a bad habit, so that partners the money spent on him or her in a person's sacrifice, leaving behind a feeling, he / she would "have to give up" the. The people who make money should not be a "decision rule" and the new rule must be cooperation, consultation, consensus with each other.
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4. Looking forward to some of the people lost their lives. This may be a good test of a person who is a friend indeed. When a person began to decline the invitation and expensive restaurants in outdoor activities, one to go, some of my friends will disappear. Those who adhere to a person and his / her choice is every bit worthy of friendship. They are people who respect a person who, rather than a person's income potential.
5. Create a budget. This budget should include all the bills, the most basic needs of any child. It should leave room for some private money for each partner. This money should be spent, storage, donation, regardless of the impulse is not in accordance with the requirements of each partner from the other. Even if the dollar is only 20 hours, this is your 20 U.S. dollars, and you will. Do not ask the other side of this private money, this is information, instead of calling for a voluntary basis. This continues the feeling of a financially independent partners, have control at home.
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6. Responsibility for payment, budgeting, and so on bargain hunting, released from work for lunch partners (to avoid those queues!), And knowledge of partners at home, what is the future, what is going out.
7. Do not expect it to be easy, we should also guard against falling into the common trap of self-esteem eroded. Loss of economic independence is not an easy task, it can let you feel weak, worthless, and helpless. Partners in the home should be avoided like the plague these feelings, but succumbed to the seductive. Partners in China is an important, regardless of profitability. Perhaps to the care of children, rehabilitation of disease, or among the work for whatever reasons, one is still actively involved in the relationship between the family in maintaining well-functioning, in raising children, in the search for employment and all of these activities.
8. Positive finding. Do not see it as a loss of financial independence. See it as an opportunity for family-based budgeting, is a very good manager, you have to become responsible. Partners should look at home, he / she can make savings, such as growing their own food, clean and environmentally friendly home-made products, pick up children from school as soon as possible rather than after school care, so that instead of buying your own food Although pre-packaging is a big drop in income, a partner at home, as well as pick-up time and an assessment, if the work of all the shortcuts (for example, takeouts), one may find a can do all this more better, cheaper, at home.
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9. Invite other people. Friends and family of the house will remain a good and show what this life is all about, even in lean times in the financial.
Tips
* Volunteer work a few hours a week at home can help to improve the significance of partnerships and provides for the friendship and his colleagues will work with. Some people are likely to be voluntary, even leaving home.
* The partner at home should not be his / her self-down: he / she is just as important as the working people. Make the brush at least twice a day should help.